Today a fellow musician sent this link of
Joshua Bell playing for tips in a metro station in DC. I found it to be a fascinating experiment.
And now for the meme questions...(Annie asked me to write on the topics listed below, similar to what she has done on
her writing blog).
How do you achieve balance in your life?The basics - enough rest, good nutrition, exercise, time with family and friends. Taking time to recharge by playing music and writing is also important for me.
What is your biggest challenge in balancing your life?It varies, but getting enough rest may be the biggest, followed by exercise - and the two are related. It comes down to setting boundaries on things like studying and handling work-related items.
What are your priorities?Based on how I actually spend time, it looks like work is a hugely important priority. And it is important, in part because of a significant career change that's involving a lot of learning. But another major priority is playing music, which usually means playing either violin or bass guitar in a group with people that similarly
need to take time to play. And another very huge priority is being available for my family - giving rides, talking, helping with homework...whatever comes up.
How have your priorities changed over time and why?I went through an intense period of studying computer programming and database design. This was in part related to work but also was just letting my head work on something different. Prior to that time I used to study foreign languages, for much the same reasons. And now I study how people go about doing inventions - same story. I used to exercise a lot but this took too much time and was not what I would call balanced - 3 times a week is a good goal now.
What advice can you share to help all of us balance our own lives?Try to not stress too much about keeping balance. It's not really very possible sometimes, depending on choices that have been made. I do like the idea of taking responsibility for choices and using good judgement whenever possible, especially when it's time to say "no." Nicely, but still needs to be said. And remember to breathe.
I guess part of the meme idea is to then tap someone else...I'll need to think about that part though.